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Start with insight
Relationship Checkup
See the strengths you can build on and the connection pattern that deserves your attention next.
Between Us
Relationship wellness for real life
The relationship you want is built in the moments you’re already living.
You don’t need another task on the calendar. You need small, intentional shifts in the ten minutes after work, the drive to practice, the kitchen cleanup, and the way you turn toward each other before sleep.
PracticalEvidence informedMade for real life
The everyday connection method
Connection lives between moments.
Choose an ordinary moment. See how one small behavior shift can turn it into a point of connection.
Your small shift
Create a landing, not a handoff.
Before the logistics begin, pause for twenty seconds. Put down what you’re carrying, make eye contact, and greet the person, not the schedule.
Try asking
“What kind of day are you carrying in?”
Choose where to begin
A better relationship doesn’t start with doing everything. It starts here.
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Use it tonight
Everyday Connection Library
Short videos, scripts, and ten minute practices made for the life you’re already living.
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Make it personal
Work with Margarita
Focused support for couples who want a clear, practical path toward a stronger way of being together.
Meet Margarita
Clinical depth.
Clarity for real life.
Margarita Kogan, LCSW, is a couples therapist, relationship educator, and speaker who translates relationship science into small shifts people can actually use.
Her work is built around a simple truth: strong relationships are shaped less by grand gestures and more by how we show up in the ordinary moments that repeat every day.
Licensed Clinical Social Worker
B.A. Fordham University
M.S.W. Yeshiva University
“We don’t lose each other all at once. We stop letting each other into the small moments.”
Margarita Kogan, LCSW
Speaking + media
Big ideas for the small moments that shape our lives.
Practical, memorable conversations for podcasts, company events, parent groups, and professional audiences.
Signature talk
The Roommate Trap
Invite Margarita
Why successful couples slowly lose each other, and the ten minute habits that bring connection back.
Work with Margarita
Choose the kind of support that fits your relationship.
Personalized support
Couples Therapy
$225 / session
Personalized couples therapy to help you understand recurring patterns, strengthen communication, rebuild emotional connection, and navigate challenges together.
Your first session includes a Gottman assessment and feedback to help identify your relationship's strengths and areas needing attention.
Book a SessionFocused, immersive care
One Day Couples Intensive
$1,795 / day
A focused, immersive experience for couples who want to make meaningful progress without waiting weeks between sessions.
Designed for rebuilding connection, navigating entrenched relationship patterns, and infidelity recovery.
Explore IntensivesA self guided relationship program
Not Ready for Therapy? A Stronger Relationship, On Your Own Time.
Not every couple needs therapy. Sometimes you just need a little guidance, a new way to connect, and the space to make your relationship a priority again.
Back to Us is a six week, self guided relationship program designed to help you move out of roommate mode and rebuild the everyday connection, appreciation, affection, and rituals that make you feel like a couple again.
$197 · Six week program
Explore Back to Us